Well, we had a sharing in our bible study a couple days ago and God teaches me something really cool about this thing called "life".
I have a friend who has bitterness towards an old best friend. They used to care about each other, hang out together and did everything together. But one day something happened and it screwed up everything. My friend hates his friend now , it seems like nothing we can do to get things right again between them.
What his friend did was so annoying for him and rising up his anger that now as he said, his bitterness is greater than his love.
My friend is just one of the so many people out there who are distressed and in despair with the situation happens around them. They have hatred, bitterness, revenge, and sometimes they are unable to forgive.
"I wish I never knew him/her"
That's what we always hear from a person when he/she is having a problem with somebody.
When things go wrong we can be so easily irritated with people, we get frustrated and wish we never knew the people that cause trouble in our life.
People that are going through hardship in life sometimes cannot accept the fact of life and many of them tend to end their lives thinking that its the answer.
Sometimes when trouble comes we lose our grip and let go of the faith that we have in God, thinking that He has forsaken us and then we start to blame others, we blame the situation and we blame God. But did you know that God IS STILL in complete control of your life and the things happening around you?
Did you know that God writes your life? Did you know that He is still holding the pen and the eraser? God is STILL writing your life, He is not done with you! The bible says that He knew your life even before you were created.
"Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continuance were fashioned, when as yet there was none of them." (Psalm 139:16).
When you think this is the end of everything, let me tell you : its not! God knows what to write about you, He knows how to start the story of your life and He knows how to end it.
Have someone ever told you that life is a story? That its like a film and that you are the main actor in your life? That God is the director of your life?
"A man's heart deviseth his way: but the LORD directeth his steps." (Proverbs 16:9).
I used to do a school project where we were asked to make a movie as our assignment. I was the director and also the script writer for my film and how frustrating it was when I missed one of the actors, because I had to find someone to take his place and when I didn't find one I had to change the story a little bit. We made it to make that film but it wasn't as good as what I had in mind, because the story changed when I missed one actor.
Did you know that in a film or a story, there are antagonistic and protagonistic actors? That each of them plays a great role in completing a story?
Did you know that God is the director of your life?
Did you know that God knows exactly how many actors should be there in your life story?
God has the exact number of people that you'll meet in your life. None of them comes by accident, even your enemies!
He even knows where and how long we would live ; "And hath made of one blood all nations of men for to dwell on all the face of the earth, and hath determined the times before appointed, and the bounds of their habitation;" (Acts 17:26).
Just like a story needs actors, your life needs other people. Just because it is your life, doesn't mean you don't need others to be involved in. A story without actors is not even a story. A life without others is not even a life. We can't be a single player in our story. We need others to make it complete.
Even antagonistic actors are there to harmonize a story.
Knowing this truth, we have no reason and no right to say "I wish I never knew you!"
We're not the director, we're just actors.
No matter what happens in our life story, whether good or bad, I believe our Director knows what He is writing.
There's a saying "Everything happens for a reason", and I know God has a specific reason for every good and bad thing happens in our life. Just believe in Him.
He doesn't write a bad story about us.
"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end." (Jeremiah 29:11).
It turns out bad when we disobey and wish we never met the antagonists in our life, and we screw up the story. But no worries, even if it happened God is still holding the pen and the eraser in His hand. He can turn things around for your good.
"And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose." (Romans 8:28).
Yahweh our God is the greatest director ever and I am so greatly honored to have Him writing my life story.
My friend, everyday is a new page of our life story. How good it is to wake up in the morning and say to God : "Father, You got the pen, write my day!"
I hope this note helps you to see your life in a new way.
PS : You are also an actor in others' life. Don't screw up their stories! Ok! :)
God bless you,
-Jack Loloin-
www.jack-online.co.nr


